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By Korey Lane November 30, In today's dating climate, it's easy to feel like no one wants to be in an exclusive relationship. It's also totally normal to feel intimidated by seekkng idea of broaching the subject with someone you like, especially if you currently find yourself in a friends with benefits situation and you want to turn it into something more serious. But the thing is, going from from friends with benefits to exclusive with someone is totally possible. Whether you're currently in a FWB relationship and are looking to take things to the next level, you know someone who is, or fwg just love to read sweet stories of people in love, look no fo. These six ladies got themselves exactly the kind of relationships they wanted, and you can too.
I brought the guy I was kind of seeing; my now-boyfriend was invited by another girl in my sorority. Now, our three-year anniversary is coming up in January. We are still good friends and talk everyday. We had a lot of close mutual friends. But the thing is, going from from friends with benefits to exclusive with someone is totally possible. Giphy We started "hooking up" at a time when it just didn't make sense for us to pursue anything serious.
These six ladies got themselves exactly the kind of relationships they wanted, and you can too. I think I realized I liked him as an actual person and not just a guy to hit up when I was bored pretty early on, but I didn't know whether I should voice those feelings — or if I even wanted to; I was having fun being a single gal with my single gal pals!
First, I said we should visit each other to see where that goes, and he agreed. We drunkenly made out, but went home with our respective dates. That was the beginning of our IRL relationship. Remember: You should be in the kind of relationship that you want to be in. We never labeled it "friends with benefits," but then again, we never labeled it anything at all! Read on for stories from women who got just that.
I don't think either of us were looking for a relationship — especially not with each other, considering how we first became acquainted. He initiated it by asking me out to dinner. Safe sex is important to me, so doing this meant we'd need to be exclusive. But it wasn't long until I was not just sleeping over his place, but hanging around the following day. A few glasses of wine later we were making out on the couch.
I had honestly never thought of him that way before because he dated one of my coworkers at an on-campus bodega I had worked at. Maybe you'll both develop feelings over time, or maybe one of you will initiate a conversation about becoming exclusive.
A few months go by, we say goodbye to each other thinking we'll probably never see each other again, and we move to our new homes. Not long after that, he told me he loved me, and that is the day we now celebrate as our "dating" anniversary.
And FWB can be a great fir if you're both into it, but in my experience, dating your friend or best friend is even better. When we got back, we instantly fell back into spending every day — and now night — together but we never had a conversation about what we were. In the end the fear of commitment came back around, though, and we went our separate ways romantically.
I wasn't satisfied by a friends with benefits situation so I started feeling out the boundaries of our relationship by calling him my boyfriend, planning dinner dates, etc.
I noticed him really caring about my well-being during finals, which I found super sweet because I was having a rough go of it. I decided we either needed to start taking our relationship more seriously, or we needed to stop talking entirely so I could move on. For us, it was so gradual and so natural, I can't say when our mindset shifted, or who initiated the shift.
But we just couldn't stay away from each other I guess! He stayed with me for a few days before leaving for a month in Peru for Christmas. We actually went from FWB to exclusive over a conversation about contraception, where he brought up relying on my IUD and no longer using condoms. No matter what your ideal relationship looks like, everyone is different, and everyone deserves exactly the kind of love they want. And it worked! By Korey Lane November 30, In today's dating climate, it's easy to feel like no one wants to be in an exclusive relationship.
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I spent Christmas in Mexico, so we talked some but not much since we were both in foreign countries. And I think he really felt the same way, so that turned into a productive conversation that ended with us deciding to date long distance. We dated for almost two years and even talked about marriage. Partially because we didn't want to ruin our friendship, partially because we both didn't want to hurt his ex and my co-worker. You deserve to be happy, whatever your ideal situation may be. We were instantly best friends in our program and spent almost every single day together studying or reading.
We had been friends for about three years, but tangentially. He came to me, and then I went to him, and at the end of that second visit, I gave him that ultimatum — either we really give our relationship a try and start dating long distance, fdw we needed to stop entirely so we could move on.
It's also totally normal to feel intimidated by the idea of broaching the subject with someone you like, especially if you currently find yourself in a friends with benefits situation and you want to turn it into something more serious.